This incident happened in August of last year when my boyfriend from L.A. paid me a visit at work. It was a surprise visit since we got into a really awful fight prior and it was hard to work things out since we didn’t see eye to eye on this subject. I’m a radio jock, by the way, and he caught me in the middle of board work. We talked and things got a little steamy and we started making out. I remember that it was really a bad time when I resisted his invitation for our first time to have sex. I broke up with him because I thought that it was the only thing he wanted from me. I am a black busty woman and men usually talk to my chest instead of to me.